Guest Episode
August 19, 2022
Episode 77:
From the Dark to the Light
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Jason Hopcus is a motivator and catalyst for cultural change within organizations. He believes that connection to one’s self, one’s transparency, and one’s passion to connect, allows individuals to live a wholly authentic, full life.
He creates systems of people working to deepen their relationships to their work, their play, and ultimately our world.
Jason’s mission is to advance human connection by embracing the conversation of fighters; the folks whose journeys from black to light give hope to those who deserve a 2nd or even a 3rd chance to be the ambassadors of conversation.
Today, Jason and I will discuss the power of focusing on those individuals who have turned their life around.
Okey-dokey.
Good morning,
Jason.
How are you?
What is going well?
Good morning,
Simon.
I am great.
What is going well?
We have beautiful weather here in Denver,
Colorado today.
Just glad it's Friday and just enjoying life.
Happy to be here.
You're right.
It is Friday.
This should give us a little extra perk in our
conversation today with the weekend just around the
corner.
That's great.
For sure.
Why don't you just introduce yourself?
Who are you?
What is it that you do?
Yeah.
That's a longer question.
I'm Jason Hopkins.
I am the President and CEO of the National
Alliance on Mental Illness for Arapahoe and Douglas
Counties.
Many people may know us as NAMI.
A lot of the work that's done for NAMI is focused
at an affiliate level.
I lead the largest affiliate in the state of
Colorado from a membership and community size
perspective.
Then I also have an organization that I founded
and I'm President of,
called The Connection Project.
And in its mission,
it is simply to strengthen and deepen connections
to ourselves and others.
Amazing!
So how,
I mean,
The Connection Project,
how does that kind of work?
Like if I wanted to get involved,
like,
can you tell us a little bit more about how
people get involved in that?
Absolutely.
So that work was born of the work that I have
done with NAMI for more than a decade now,
and really recognizing that a lot of that work
focused on family members and loved ones; there's
always going to be a population that needs the
support,
education,
support,
and outreach programs that we offer.
But there was a broad swath of people who were
just what I would consider struggling with life,
transition issues,
et cetera.
Loss of a loved one,
loss of a job,
you know; transition,
relationship issues,
et cetera.
You know,
I think we can all agree that there are seasons
in our lives that we go through things that
perhaps we need some extra support or help to
navigate those times.
It does not imply that you have to have a mental
illness or mental health condition.
And I found by and large,
there was not a place to turn in a simple way
during those times.
So,
that work is really focused on,
you know,
what are the things that we can do in those times
of struggle that really empower us to take action
in our own lives and to take a next right step
in supporting ourselves for,
you know,
having a life that we,
you know,
enjoy and love.
In your experience,
so people,
there's a,
there's a clear narrative.
There's certain myths around mental health and
mental illness as well.
I think that if you don't have experience with
going through something like depression or anxiety,
it can be quite difficult.
It can be very difficult to,
to relate to an individual who's going through
something like that because everybody's no past
traumas,
be that from childhood or in your adulthood,
everyone's going to experience psychologically and
physiologically different.
Different experiences when it comes to how their
body is going to end up dealing with dealing with
that situation.
And it's going to,
it's going to vary with people.
So why does this present narrative about mental
health often hold people back from recovery?
Because I think we're certainly talking more about
mental health.
I think in the last couple of years,
especially on my social media streams,
you know,
I've gained so much about men's mental health and,
and,
you know,
we should be talking more.
And I think that's absolutely,
that's totally spot on in,
in regards to the mental health and the mental
health and the mental health and the mental health
and the mental health and the mental health and
the mental health and the mental health and the
mental health.
But what do you think holds people back in regards
to the car?
Cause there's a stigma that's certainly a stigma
around it.
So what's holding us back?
Yeah,
that's a great question,
Simon.
I'm so glad you asked.
So,
I mean,
I think there's a couple of things with that.
I mean,
I think currently and historically,
we have a narrative that assumes that when people
are struggling or going through something that they
are willing to do more,
go further,
be more committed,
take more action than they actually are.
And if you look at our current mental health
system,
it is pretty designed to be more committed to
around getting somebody into treatment,
which can often look like finding a therapist or a
support group or taking meds or,
you know,
God forbid,
you need a more severe intervention,
you know,
a stay in a treatment facility.
I think that the short-sightedness of that
perspective really leaves us just as we're
approaching our own struggle of really unsure of
what to do next.
I mean,
I think if you take a broad swath of society and
look at it,
I think if more people were willing to take all
those steps and do all of those things from the
get-go,
we likely would have a healthier society.
But I don't think it's realistic.
I don't think everybody is going to get in their
car or seek out finding a therapist or find a
doctor or psychiatrist that's going to prescribe
them meds.
And frankly,
I don't think that that is a solution for
everybody.
Of course,
I don't want to discount traditional treatment
therapies at all because they are highly effective
and necessary for many people by and large.
But when I talk about traditional treatment
therapies,
I don't want to discount traditional treatment
therapies the fact that everyone struggles,
and that's actually the tagline in our organization,
and recognize that struggle is kind of a
foundational place that any one of us could find
ourselves in.
I think it should be easier for us to be able to
navigate the system,
and it shouldn't require us having to spend hours
to seek out a therapist or to find a doctor to
prescribe meds.
I mean,
there are simple things that we can take action on
in our own lives to support ourselves.
And again,
not subscribing to the fact that this is a
one-size-fits-all solution,
because it is not.
But I think the narrative has really held people
back.
And to your point,
mental health and mental illness,
I think there is no differentiation in the current
lexicon for the conversation that we're having.
I mean,
not everybody who is struggling with mental health,
and frankly,
we all have it if you have a brain,
has a mental illness.
And I think that those two words get used
interchangeably.
And now we've decided to add that word wellness or
well-being into it.
Make it softer or gentler for people to understand.
I think the reality is it comes down to a simple
thing.
We are all seeking connection to ourselves and
others.
And I think the current system,
and again,
I don't want to point fingers at anybody,
it is really,
we don't have language to describe the differences.
And I think that's what keeps a lot of us stuck
in not taking action.
Do you feel that the conventional model,
because I feel like in the UK,
in Canada,
where I am now,
and in the US,
there's probably a very,
very similar pathway where someone who is
struggling,
he does go to see their doctor,
they're probably going to get put on a
pharmaceutical,
maybe get to see a therapist and be referred.
But like in your experience,
and a lot of people who have come through your
organization,
the Connection Project,
how have people experienced that conventional pathway
through what you were doing?
A mental health issue or a diagnosis or a
dis-ease?
How have you seen people go through that classic
model?
Yeah,
that's a good question.
And again,
I go back to this is not a one-size-fits-all
solution.
So,
what works for one person may not work for
another.
I think it really starts with us as human beings.
I mean,
the basis for anything in life is,
are you willing to take action and do it
committedly and consistently to get a different
result?
So people who come into seeking support or help
with an attitude of 'I'm willing to do what it
takes to feel better',
often fare better.
The ones who may have a half-hearted approach to,
oh,
I'm going to try this,
but it didn't work well for me in the past,
and maybe come in with a preconceived notion about
what their expectations are,
what they're going to get out of a treatment
program.
I think the narrative that we build up in our own
head often really stops us short of getting the
treatment.
So I think that's a good thing.
I think that's a good thing.
I think that's a good thing.
I think that's a good thing.
I think that's a good thing.
I think that's a good thing.
And frankly,
I think we have to go back and really call out
most people don't seek help or support to change
unless they have to.
For some reason,
they've been court ordered,
or somebody's doing something disastrous that they
don't want the consequence of,
or it's too painful that they can't sustain living
the way they've been living.
I think that is how we are wired as humans.
And to assume that,
again,
that people are going to,
to do more,
go further,
go faster,
to support themselves,
I think it's a really,
it's a dangerous narrative for us to continue
promoting,
because I don't think it's realistic,
and it hasn't played out.
It doesn't support that people are just,
oh,
I feel bad today,
and I'm going to go and take all these steps to
help myself.
I don't just.
Yeah,
well,
we've seen,
we've seen a rise all across the world in regards
to organizations,
individuals really taking,
really taking charge of supporting mental health
within their community.
That could be like a,
you know,
that could certainly be a,
a global or a national or a very,
like,
you know,
small regional organization.
And that just,
just looking at those,
that,
that rise,
which is a very positive thing,
because a lot of people are seeing within their
own families,
within their own relationships,
within their own lives,
that their mental health is a very serious issue.
And a lot of people are struggling.
So they're trying to advocate.
They're trying to create solutions.
They're trying to spread the message,
trying to create resources for people,
which is unbelievably positive.
Right.
But it just goes to show to me that,
like,
the right.
The conventional model clearly isn't working because
we're having to,
you know,
we're kind of having to take measures into our own
hands.
It's like,
kind of the general public and the kind of,
a lot of governments aren't quite,
I mean,
obviously resource-stricken somewhat,
but it just goes to show to me that this rise of
organizations is really positive,
but it just goes to show that's happening over as
a reflection because something that the primary
broad treatment mechanism isn't working.
Well,
I think you hit the nail on the head when you
talked about,
about resources of the system.
I mean,
you know,
if we look back to what we've collectively been
through in the last couple of years with COVID,
you know,
there are so many things that have happened that,
you know,
have really forever changed the world and the
trajectory that we're on as a human race.
And I think the great news for mental health
specifically is people are starting to talk
collectively about their struggle in a way that
they never have.
I think that's a really amazing thing because it
opens the door for people to be able to talk
about their struggles in a way that they never
have.
I think that's a really amazing thing because it
opens the door for people to seek out support.
Part of the narrative that is not broad and loudly
spread,
which I think is where a lot of these smaller
organizations come into or even large organizations
is the recognition of the demand far exceeds the
system's availability to support people.
So I really think the advent of where we're going
or where we are currently and will continue to
evolve to is going to look like people better
supporting themselves.
Like,
what are the steps I can take?
If I am struggling to help myself through this
time and recognizing that there are system supports
in place,
but they are more limited than they've ever been.
And frankly,
they're for many people incredibly hard to access.
You know,
I mean,
I hear people all the time that want to see a
therapist.
And I mean,
I can usually make a call and find somebody a
place to get connected.
If you don't have a resource like me that you can
pick up the phone and call.
The reality is you may have to wait three or four
months.
To get a therapy appointment or to get in to see
a doctor that could prescribe you meds.
And frankly,
in that moment,
three or four months feels hopeless for many
people.
Yeah,
it's so it's so tricky.
It's so difficult.
And I think that going forward,
I think we're going to be taking a lot of
personal responsibility within our own communities to
be able to reach out and allow people to be
vulnerable and be open.
And,
you know,
start committing to their own recovery,
but doing it in a communal setting.
I think one of the positives of the last couple
of years is that we've all we've all dealt with
this,
this trauma,
this this tragedy of COVID together.
It's a commonality,
right?
So it's bought it.
You know,
it's like it's kind of given a lot of people the
recognition that we share this big thing,
this big issue,
this big problem at the moment.
And it's a trauma bond,
frankly.
It's a trauma bond.
That's really good.
I like that.
Yeah.
And I think that the recognition of that we share
a we have a collective shared experience,
I think,
is really powerful.
I think the trap is in that is a lot of people
assume that what worked for them is going to work
for everybody else.
And the fact of the matter is,
is mental health has never been a one size fits
all solution.
I think that is why it has struggled to gain
traction,
not only because you know the stigma that we may
feel or that society places on us.
You know,
if we are really struggling and need support,
you know,
holds many people back.
But again,
I go back to we we don't have a common lexicon
that supports how we talk about this in a
productive,
helpful way that really opens the door for somebody
to say,
'Hey,
I'm really struggling with this.' Can I talk to
you about it?
And I see that happening in youth more than I do
in in adults and people who have have grown up in
a different system.
And I think that we will evolve.
You know,
certainly younger generations are changing how we
see mental health.
And I think it includes a lot more than it ever
has.
But I do think it is a bit of a trap in
assuming that what worked for you is going to work
for me.
And we see that playing out.
And that's why there's all these different
organizations.
You know,
I think not every organization is going to end up
being a reliable,
trusted resource.
And,
you know,
again,
I encourage people to decide what are the things
you can take action on in your own life that you
have value for.
And if you have the ability,
you know,
to integrate,
that doesn't necessarily cost you any money other
than making a commitment,
a willingness to take action.
Yeah,
it's so it's so interesting because we need,
we need to start creating these conversations a lot
earlier in the process of somebody going through
struggles.
Right.
Because it usually takes a trauma or a tragedy or
something significant to happen within that
individual's life.
Or maybe they they're so ill and they're so
deficient.
It may be nutrients that they.
They become sick and they become ill.
And that's kind of their wake-up call.
We need to be capturing this significantly earlier
in the process,
right before somebody gets to the point where
something really big does happen in their life.
And I think that's where these organizations and
these conversations really can become helpful.
And I agree with you in regards to the younger
generations being a little bit more willing,
being a little bit more aware of and and being a
bit more open to being,
you know,
to not being OK.
And I think that's a,
yeah.
It's been a big problem in my parents'
generation and their parents'
generation.
It's like,
'not it's not OK.' You know,
so we can just put this facade up,
right?
Well,
I think.
And also,
you know,
this trauma bond that we all share.
I don't know about you,
but I if I look around collectively,
it feels like we are a world of a pot that's
about to boil over.
So sometimes if somebody comes to you and they
want to share with you,
depending on where you are in your own space,
you may not have anything else to give.
So I don't think everybody is an open door to
say,
'Here,
I'm here to support you' because they may have
their own thing that they're not dealing with.
You know,
I go back to when we started the Connection
Project.
I mean,
the the interesting thing was,
is realizing,
you know,
this is something that really pertains to anybody.
But frankly,
how do you market to anybody and everybody?
So what we really started focusing on is looking
at what are vulnerable or marginalized communities
that we could.
You know,
study anxiety,
depression rates,
suicidal ideation,
suicidal completion rates,
etc.,
to really understand what are our most vulnerable
communities.
And by and large,
the groups that we've worked with,
I mean,
we've worked with middle-aged men groups.
We've worked with moms.
We do a lot of work with responders.
We do work with veterans.
We do work with youth.
And really,
I'll be honest with you.
While they end up becoming vulnerable.
And we're doing social impact campaigns for those
marginalized populations.
The truth is,
is the information is really the same.
It's the imagery and the subtle changes in the
narrative that target those groups specifically.
But the realization is we're all at our core.
We want to be seen,
valued and heard.
You know,
we want to find connection with ourselves and
others.
And I think that's that's the piece that's missing.
You know,
when somebody comes to you and says that they're
struggling,
I don't think it means for most people,
I need you to fix it.
I think for most people,
what it really means is I need you to listen and
I need to get this out of myself.
And maybe I just need you to sit with me.
And I think a lot of times people feel a real
sense of responsibility.
If I come to you and tell you that I'm struggling
with something that you're going to expect me to
do something to help you and I don't have the
tools to do it or think I don't have the tools
to do it.
I don't think that's the reality.
I think most people coming from that place of
where a pot that's about to boil over really just
need to let the steam out of the pot.
Yeah,
I agree with you.
I think just,
in my experience personally and within my kind of
circle of individual circle of friends and family,
I think a lot of people have become a lot more
empathic and understanding than.
Sure,
I've got stuff going on and there are times where
I feel depressed at times where I feel anxious.
But I think the last couple of years has shown
that clearly other people are without question going
through their own struggles,
regardless of how they might look on social media
or how they dress themselves up,
you know,
so I think that empathy pieces is very important
to to sit back and understand that.
Yeah,
everyone's kind of got everyone's got their
problems.
Everyone's got their own personal struggles.
But that's that's a that's a commonality that we
can that we can connect with as human beings and
and and commune together in a in a positive way
going forward.
Right?
Well,
that's what I loved about our tagline,
'Everyone Struggles.' Is that?
You know,
it sets the baseline of something that isn't scary.
It isn't sad.
It isn't traumatic.
I mean,
frankly,
what we've all been through collectively,
does any of us need more scary,
sad or traumatic in our lives?
No.
You know,
struggle is one of those words.
If you say,
hey,
I'm really struggling and you share what that may
be with somebody.
I find nine times out of ten,
somebody will turn around and share something
they're struggling with with you,
not to discount your experience,
but to build a bond and rapport with you.
That to me is really powerful stuff.
And when you can get to the heart of just
connecting with somebody else through human
experience,
like,
frankly,
why wouldn't we want more of that?
Why wouldn't we promote more of that?
Absolutely.
What what do I think is powerful about focusing on
those people who have championed themselves,
who have turned their personal struggle into
something positive and have turned their lives
around?
What?
Because what do I think is important about focusing
on that when you are in a position of looking to
look for motivation or look for a way out from
the kind of the darkness?
Yeah,
that's a great question.
And I and I can't speak for anybody else,
but I can't; I can say in my own life,
I mean,
I built this life from hell.
I mean,
I literally went through my own dark night of the
soul to build this life,
which has led me into doing the work that I do
today.
I think first and foremost,
when we see somebody else in that position who is
willing.
To show up and champion for another person or
community or cause,
we have to see them as humans first and recognize
that there are likely personal stories or narratives
that have played out in their own life that lead
them to do the work that they're doing today.
That doesn't necessarily mean that they are always
going to be an expert or they are always going to
have the answer.
And I think a lot of times,
you know,
frankly,
we social media is allowing us to live our lives
as a highlight reel.
You know,
we see the greatest and the best online.
Right.
We see the greatest and the best online,
which is often not reflective or representative of
what somebody actually is doing day in and day
out.
And I think the trap there is we assume that
people have have greater capabilities.
They have more skills.
They have more willingness to help.
You know,
I think we have to see them as humans first.
And if there is a connection point and you come
to me for something that I have to offer and I'm
willing to offer it in that space,
that could be a beautiful symbiotic relationship.
But I don't think that we should expect that that
happens by and large in any in any given
situation.
We are humans having a human experience.
And I think it's important to see the human first
before we look at what can they offer me.
Who do you think we can who can we celebrate?
Who do you think we should go to in regards to
know whether that's books or stories or people
within our own circles?
I had it.
How do you think that's that process begins?
Well,
I think that process starts begin.
It starts by beginning to celebrate.
Celebrate yourself for for your willingness to show
up and recognize,
hey,
something's not right and I need to do something
about it.
Like,
that's really powerful.
And that 20 seconds of courage is literally the
thing that can set the stage for all of the steps
that come subsequently.
I think as humans,
we get so focused on seeing the whole staircase.
We forget you don't get up the staircase unless
you take one step at a time or unless you're
monumental and can take two at a time.
But it is still a systematic process.
To get up the staircase.
That's not not all at once.
So I think championing,
championing,
championing,
championing ourselves.
I can say this is really an important step.
And then from there,
recognizing who is the person that that resonates
for you or that you see as somebody that embodies
the skills or the qualities or the the life that
you want to pattern for yourself.
And then,
learn more about them and you'll find their
humaneness in that experience.
I just I think when we get into assuming that
people are,
you know,
champion is a great word.
I think it's really easy for us to discount their
humaneness and recognize that they are going to
have answers that fit everybody's life.
And I just don't think that's the case.
I I often think back to,
you know,
kind of like maybe simpler times when.
A lot of people would have mentors.
There'd be apprenticeships.
There'd be that.
We'd have role models,
you know,
and we'd have role models that we could actually
see,
see,
see and feel right rather than these nonsense
celebrities.
We would have,
you know,
we'd have these individuals in our lives that we
would look up to and we would get guidance from.
And that was this,
you know,
kind of like rite of passage from childhood into
adulthood.
And it was very,
very prevalent within the community because you
needed that structure for the kind of next
generation to come in to to learn the way forward.
And it was very,
very popular in the early days of the group,
the community.
Right.
And without question,
I feel that like it's very difficult to maybe
access role models or mentors in this world,
because even from a very young age,
you're expected to take so much on yourself and
succeed.
And asking questions or being wrong is not
necessarily like a positive thing in our society.
So how do you feel in regards to the importance
of role models and mentors?
And that is that inaccessible these days?
Is it tougher to find?
I don't think it's inaccessible,
but I think the way that we go about seeking them
has changed.
And the reality is,
is if we go back to living our life on a
highlight reel,
I mean,
we have entire generations that are being raised
with technology and devices that older generations
didn't grow up with.
I think there are many positive benefits of that.
But the dangerous part of it is if you empower a
child,
let's say,
you know,
six,
seven year old with,
you know,
technology,
they often can have an unfeathered access to
information that they don't understand the context
of what they're looking at.
And I think that that shapes,
you know,
how somebody is evolving or developing in their own
life.
And I think that that's a really kind of scary
thing that we have not figured out how to
navigate.
Yet.
And I think from that place,
what you might seek out as a role model or a
mentor may be somebody that has a lifestyle or
represents something that you think that you want.
And again,
I'm not saying those things aren't attainable for
everybody,
but I don't think they're attainable for everybody.
And I think people spend a lot of effort and
energy trying to model themselves after somebody
that likely is never going to result in any real
human connection.
I mean,
I think we have we have bought into,
you know,
technology offering some sort of implied connection.
And the reality is that's all it is.
I mean,
it's you know,
while we're doing this remotely,
we're seeing each other's face on the screen.
I don't think there's a connection or there's a I
don't think there's a replacement for one on one
connection.
So when somebody is seeking or looking for a
mentor,
you know,
I would encourage them to really scratch below the
surface just a little bit.
And discern what am I seeking here?
And can this person actually offer me this in a
real tangible way that looks and feels and actually
is connection,
not just a perceived connection?
Yeah,
I mean,
absolutely.
I mean,
if we were in the same room right now and having
this conversation face to face in the same room,
it would it would just take this up a notch.
You know,
like it is.
That's just the way we were programmed for that
human connection to be able to.
Right.
Really fit feed off each other's energy.
And like,
you know,
this is obviously a wonderful option.
But,
yeah,
as I say,
like if we were in person having this conversation,
it would just,
you know,
just kick up,
kick it up a notch.
And I think that's what that's what's accessible to
a lot of people if they choose to try and connect
with people in their in their local community
rather than,
yeah,
like attempting to to get this from like a from a
social media outlet.
You you discuss in some of your website,
you talk about social responsibility at the next
level.
Can you tell us a little bit more about what that
means?
Yeah.
So a lot of the work we have done is really been
built upon connecting with those vulnerable or
marginalized communities.
And often what that will look like is we will
build a campaign that potentially has a podcast
series,
has a digital resource list of vetted,
you know,
supported resources that can support that community
to really start fostering conversations.
Like,
I am a champion of let's look at who are the
people that are the way makers of having these
conversations.
I am a champion of having conversations like
yourself that are trying to to put it out there
and to advance the narrative and really start
having those conversations in a way that,
you know,
if I can inspire people to think differently about
something that they have historically thought of a
certain way or to plant a seed around.
Oh,
maybe there's more to that.
And I want to learn more about it.
And then can we get you connected to resources
that can help you or support you in a time?
And that is done through.
You know,
the.
The miracles of digital technology,
marketing campaigns,
social media campaigns,
et cetera.
We've had a tremendous success in being able to
reach people.
That,
to me,
is the grassroots in a modern world.
You know,
how do we connect builders?
You know,
build and connect bigger and faster than we might
do have done historically knocking on doors?
Yes,
certainly.
What are going forward?
Like,
what are some of the big things that people can
do today in 2022 to improve their mental health
without spending a lot of money or without having
to wait three,
four months for a therapist to say the things
people can do right now that can start to put
them in a in a position to to do even more
things or to start thinking differently or feeling
differently or behaving differently?
I'm so glad you asked.
That's a great question.
So first and foremost,
I think there's things that.
I'm going to frame this conversation a little
differently.
So I do a lot of work with youth and we're
currently building.
I don't know exactly what it is we're building
yet,
but we're having community conversations with youth.
We're building a for youth by youth initiative to
support youth mental health.
In one of those conversations,
I had a very great meeting with a future youth
leader here in Colorado who dynamic young woman.
She's a junior in high school.
And after we had this group conversation,
she reached out to me.
And said,
hey,
could we have a sidebar conversation?
There's something you mentioned that I want to talk
about.
I said,
sure.
Absolutely.
We got on the phone.
And she said,
you reminded me in that conversation that getting
outside and getting sun on my head and taking a
walk can change my mood state.
Now,
again,
that seems like a pretty simple thing for most of
us to recognize.
Hey,
that might make a difference.
And further,
she asked,
is there a group or something that I can integrate
in my school that supports people getting out and
taking a walk?
I said,
well,
other than you being an ambassador for the message,
I'm not sure that there is.
But I think to answer your question,
the thing that we have forgotten,
taking a walk,
getting sun on your head,
proper nutrition,
drinking enough water,
getting enough sleep,
those things can all contribute greatly to your
mental health.
They don't cost anything.
There's something you can do right now today.
And the reality is,
is if you feel out of sorts or stressed out or
anxious,
I guarantee you,
if you go sit 10 minutes.
On a step outside or in a chair and just get
some sun on your head and focus on nothing but
just kind of being in the present moment of that.
You will feel different if you go and walk around
the block.
I'm not saying you won't feel bad 15 minutes from
now,
but it will shift the mindset that you're sitting,
perhaps spinning in.
And again,
I don't offer these as solutions that I think are
going to necessarily fix anything sustainably.
But I do think that they owe a lot of attention.
And I think it's important that we open the door
for,
oh,
I had a good experience doing that.
Let me do that again.
Because I think a lot of times where we fail is
we don't do things with commitment or consistency.
And we don't rebuild neural pathways in our head
by just doing it once and assuming it's going to
be a solution that fixes everything.
I think whatever you choose,
choose to do it with commitment and consistency.
Like do it again and again and again.
Yeah.
I think.
I'll say that,
if I could help people,
I think the 19,00 days,
if you're just following your mind,
moving your body and exercising and being outside
and utilizing sunlight,
the research on that is so compelling for mental
health.
And I think we can do a better job in teaching
our youth why that happens and what happens to the
body when you do something like that.
When you breathe more,
you breathe more air in,
and you've got more oxygen going through your body,
and you're stimulating different hormones being
produced.
you know different times of the day like i think
i think they can certainly understand this and it
will it would have a lot more of an impact in
regards to those individuals um expressing and maybe
influencing other people to kind of do the same
thing you know it's not just about just like just
go outside and you'll feel better i think we can
certainly wrap that up in a in a in a in a
package where it's understood a little bit more
stronger and um like yeah i mean it's such a
quick and easy thing that most people can access
and i and i don't think that you know this is
not rocket science we're talking about here these
are things that we know but i think in our
pursuit of seeking connection perceived connection
through technology we often are buried in our phone
and our devices and we're seeking out those
connections online and the reality is as we talked
about earlier there is never going to be a similar
connection to one-on-one whether that's with
yourself or with another person like you know again
you don't believe me just try it get out take
A walk get 15 minutes of sun on your head,
you know,
and if that feels too hard for you,
like write down three things that you're grateful
for or drink a glass of water.
Like again,
I don't think we have to make these insurmountable
or so hard.
But I do know,
again from my own experience and working with
thousands of people at this point,
there are things that we can do today,
ourselves,
that will shift our mood state if we're willing to
take action.
I think it starts with the willingness,
certainly.
And it's not about doing that one thing to cure
you or that's going to be the one thing; no,
it's about giving people the ability to feel a
little Bit different to think a little bit
different to behave a little bit differently,
and then creating a bit more space for recognizing
you know I could do this,
I could do this a few times a day,
I could...
You know,
I feel a little better doing this.
Maybe I could go for a jog or I could,
you know,
go and make some nice food,
and I could do this a few times a day,
and I could,
you know,
I could do this a few times a day or something
or go and chat to a friend,
yeah...
Like it just gives people that extra space to be
able to do the other things.
It's so important that encompasses us as a human,
especially when it wraps around our like our
psychological health well.
Frankly,
I think it comes down to two simple words:
self-empowerment.
You know,
and if you think about those two words,
self-empowerment - I mean,
who wouldn't want more of that?
That is literally championing,
I cannot say this word 'championing' for yourself...
um,
it took me three tries last time too,
that's good; um,
yeah.
I think it's showing up for yourself.
I think we have become so desensitized to recognize
that there are things that we can do on our own.
And I really believe if we want to create a
movement that's sustainable and really start changing
the lexicon for mental health,
I think it starts by...
you know,
and why I'm so impassioned.
About working with you,
frankly,
I think they are going to shape how the world
sees mental health because they see it differently.
So what I'm learning and understanding from them is
very different.
I think going back and trying to change adult
behavior is much harder than building in better,
better systems of support much younger and then
helping create a,
a narrative or a system of support that parents
understand so we can start having these interfacing
conversations that builds healthier generations.
And,
obviously,
we obviously have the,
you know,
the adults creating the legislation and,
you know,
creating these policies.
And doing all these things,
so yeah,
as I say,
like it could take a generation or two to for
that to filter through,
right?
As those individuals get older.
But yeah,
that's that's an interesting it's an interesting
thing you know.
We've done a lot of research; um,
we've employed two professional research firms in
the work that we're creating specifically for youth
to really flesh out what are the mental health
resources available for youth today,
and,
and I will say there are many that are um uh
supported by youth; there are a lot of youth
advisory councils,
there are a lot of youth voices,
I mean very dynamic future leaders that Are leading
the charge on this,
I will say by and large I haven't found another
organization that is literally a for youth by youth
organization.
We are not building anything that is not
green-stamped by the youth that we are working
with,
and that is a broad segment of youth that we are
working with,
working at.
Frankly,
I think the thing that that that really comes into
the conversation is defining how youth see mental
health,
which is very different than how our generation
might see mental health or older generations see
mental health.
It is more inclusive; it is broader.
Their willingness to jump into traditional
modalities.
Of treatment,
is much different; their experiences and expectations
of those treatments are different.
You know,
um,
again I think we have to be really sensitive to
the fact that we have to be really sensitive to
the fact that we have to be really sensitive to
the fact that we have an entire generation that is
being raised with technology and social media from
the jump; like there's not,
unlike we integrate this later in.
And I think the,
the,
the science behind how that affects your brain and
its development is pretty compelling to support the
narrative has to evolve in your experience with
these youth leaders who are you.
know very much dictating a lot of like what how
the organizations are run.
How can people start to release the blocks and
limitations that they have to move forward within
their own lives or even in their own careers?
I think it's a willingness to take one next step.
I literally think you don't get up the staircase
without the one next step.
From that perspective,
if you are willing to take a walk around the
block like I'm going to get 15 minutes of sun on
my head and take a walk around the block for the
next 30 days,
I'm going to do it every day.
Like,
if you just start there or I'm going to write
down three things I'm grateful for every Day,
you know,
and again,
it can't be waking up and breathing.
I mean,
it can be some days,
but I mean,
you know,
like really focus on what are the things you have
to be grateful for in your life.
I guarantee you doing anything as a practice will
change you; it will change your mindset,
and it will open the door for you to to see what
the next step looks like.
Like don't get focused on the staircase just the
next step,
and do it with commitment and consistency.
What are the more underserved communities when it
comes to mental health awareness that you've
experienced?
Oh,
the responder community by and large,
um,
I think the mental health community.
if you think about it i mean we've placed such a
burden on our mental health providers who is
supporting them interesting you know i think that
is a really vulnerable community right now i think
youth i think parents raising youth is a really
vulnerable community you know you think about what
our frontline and emergency responders were asked to
step up to do quality videotapes and not to let
their?ative care is alone on campus isni? was an
incredible shift in the last year expectation in
you know the global pandemic that we all went
through i mean it was it was life-changing work
for many of them that i don't think that
We've seen a walk back from that,
and I think the demands on people are still really
incredibly high,
and I think that's playing out in an epic way.
I was reading something the other day about out,
you know,
it's 4 million people a month,
I think,
that are leaving their jobs,
many of them frontline worker-type jobs that won't
come back to that.
How do we backfill those gaps in the society?
I don't know.
I think systemically,
we're going to be forced to adapt downward to what
our expectations are of service in the world just
because of what we've all been through.
I mean,
I think people are just fried.
Yeah,
I think that that's a very,
very,
yeah,
it's a good analysis of that very sensitive group
of individuals.
And you just say like,
yeah,
the people supporting mental health to people who
support their mental health and who's supporting
their mental health,
you know,
it's very,
very tricky.
And yeah,
like so many people leaving their jobs in such
vital areas of our society.
Yeah,
we're going to have to have a different expectation
going forward if something drastic doesn't change.
So NAMI,
it's the National Alliance for Mental Illness.
Is that right?
Correct.
Yeah.
So how does that look going forward in regards to
do you have like some big goals going forward?
Is there something,
you know,
something on the horizon?
Yeah.
So NAMI as an organization,
there's a national organization and there's
representation in every state as a state
organization.
And then the actual work to support community
members happens at the affiliate level.
So to be clear,
I run an affiliate.
One of the largest ones in Colorado.
And many NAMI organizations,
depending on where they are,
you know,
are all volunteer-led.
We happen to have paid staff.
But what I think it looks like moving forward,
I think NAMI as an organization is having to
really redefine through what we've all been through.
How do we better support people?
How do we better show up to meet the evolving
needs of society?
I mean,
NAMI is an organization by and large supported
chronically or persistently mentally ill.
The end of the way with the I'm with NAMI.
I'm with the family members.
I think the,
you know,
any movement that we can take to empower people to
take action,
that self-empowerment piece,
I think that's huge because I think I think we
cannot discount or overlook the fact that we have
a system that is overburdened.
Very well said.
I'm just amazed at what they know,
how smart they are,
how willing they are to champion a cause for
collective struggle.
I mean,
it may start with what they've experienced in their
own schools,
but I mean,
it is,
I think it's game changing,
honestly,
Simon.
Cool.
Well,
it's going to be exciting to see how that goes
forward.
And I do hope that there are organizations all
over the world that are taking it from that point
of view,
because I think that's very,
very important to be able to do anything.
Of any substance going forward.
Agree.
How can people learn more about NAMI?
How can people connect with you if they want to
learn more?
Yeah,
so that's really easy.
So my two websites are www.NAMIadco.org.
And then the connection project is
And you can connect with me on either of those.
And,
you know,
we're,
we're continuing to be champions for the cause
ourselves in the work that we're doing.
I am excited for seeing this to continue to evolve
personally.
Beautiful.
Myself included in that.
I think I really appreciate your conversation in
regards to the perspective on the,
on the youth within these organizations,
taking those simple steps,
giving yourself even just 15 minutes outside to
just change your environment somewhat and how
powerful and impactful that can be.
I really appreciate your time today and your
perspective on all of that.
Simon,
I appreciate you for holding the space for the
conversation.
It was,
it was well spent.
Awesome.
I completely agree with you.
Thank you very much,
Jason.
I really appreciate your time.
Appreciate you.
Awesome.
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