Guest Episode
November 27, 2021
Episode 46:
Fertility & Long Term Stress with Priscilla Soler
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Priscilla Soler is a Holistic Nutritionist and Women's Health Expert.
Priscilla focuses on women’s health from a functional medicine perspective in Mexico City. Her main work is around hormone imbalances, fertility support, PCOS and inflammatory conditions.
She has been practicing in this area for 5 years and has worked with hundreds of women who have shared their success stories.
Priscilla also has a wonderful presence on social media, influencing so many people to take better steps for their health. You can find her on Instagram where you can join over 90,000 people who already follow her.
Today we will discuss the impacts of stress on fertility. I think this topic is appropriate right now, considering most of us are experiencing 1 stress or another.
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all right hi priscilla welcome to the show i hope
you're doing well what's going on i'm in mexico
everything's really well thank you we just had a
chat before about how i'm in a cozy sweater
because it's two degrees outside and you're in
mexico and the weather is a little bit different
it's like 21 celsius right now it's so nice yeah
okay we'll leave the weather talk then for now
that's great yeah um just before we kind of get
into the the hot topics of our discussion today
i'd love to get a little bit of a background on
you so why don't you tell us a little bit about
your health health journey into holistic nutrition
and natural
Healing,
and I do it come from a personal experience where
you're where you're at now,
yeah.
So everything started around when I was 17 years
old.
I had different um eating disorders so after
struggling with that for a bit,
I i got super um obsessed with nutrition basically.
But I went to business school first and when I
was in business school,
I realized that I didn't want to study that I was
really passionate about health.
So that's when I decided to uh change uh change
paths and I went to holistic nutrition school in
Victoria.
And I also suffered from a lot of hormonal
imbalances so when I was studying nutrition,
I knew that i wanted to focus mostly in hormones
and women's health because i was struggling with
that and i saw how by changing my diet and
changing my lifestyle many things just got fixed
basically cool tell us about the so there's
obviously so many nutrition schools um health coach
schools all around all around the world you know
you can do a you know you can do six month
nutrition classes online now and become like you
know like a health coach or a natural practitioner
or something but why did you you know you went to
a school in victoria and you went to a school in
victoria and you went to a school in victoria and
tell us about why did
You chose that school,
okay.
So that was a three-year program.
I was really looking for the closest to a normal
university education because actually,
like before that,
I was in like university for business school,
so I was always like really into going to school.
Like,
I've always liked that.
But the idea of going to school to study
nutrition,
that I didn't want to recommend like eating um,
um ham and cheese and bread,
like just didn't resonate with me.
And so I came back to Mexico and I had the
opportunity to apply to a few good universities in
Mexico,
but when I was here,
I was like,
'I don't like their programs.' It's just not what
i want to learn uh it's so opposite of what i'm
looking to promote so i found this uh school
online and i i'm actually half canadian so it was
very easy to move back to canada and i applied to
pacific green college it was a three-year program
i do think it's very complete for a holistic
nutrition program and um yeah so that's why i
chose that one because i think it was like the
closest to um a comprehensive uh dietitian program
that i didn't want to follow because i didn't want
to promote that lifestyle um and after i finished
the holistic nutrition course for three years i
moved back to mexico and i applied to pacific
Green college and I've been studying with Dr.
Aviva Rom,
she has great courses online um for nutritionists
and doctors and just anyone who's in the health
field,
and I did a one-year program on functional medicine
for women and one-year program on herbal medicine
for women,
so that's when I started like bringing all the
holistic nutrition into hormones.
Great schools you were looking at in Mexico,
I'm sure there's yeah,
there's obviously great universities there and great
great professors and great courses.
So what were the the bigger differences between
that type of a that type of a university because
i think that would be quite typical around the
world in bigger cities and bigger universities they
all have nutrition courses they all have dietitian
programs so what's the difference between that and
then doing a three-year holistic nutrition program
in you know in victoria where you went well the
schools that i was up the schools that i was up
the schools that i was up the schools that i was
up applying to in mexico was just uh you like a
normal bachelor's degree on nutrition that you would
expect from most universities or universities
universities so biochemistry chemistry um just
science just like all the um the
Basics that you need,
I'm not saying that you don't need them,
but also they had a lot of uh uh classes that I
was just like I don't want to focus my energy on
that because I feel like if you're in a
university,
you're not going to have to do a lot of classes.
It takes,
for example,
the program that I went to,
that we went to was three years.
And I think that everything we were taught was
exactly what you needed for a consultation.
Like it was just some points on times,
like,
well,
my favorite teacher was Carrie.
She's amazing in everything that she was teaching
because it's just understanding the body from a
very functional perspective.
And that's what I understood after I finished
school and I started doing functional medicine
courses,
because I also went to the IFM,
which is the Institute for Functional Medicine.
I took like three courses from them.
And I was like,
I learned this in school.
Like I didn't know that we were actually being
taught functional medicine in holistic nutrition.
And so that's the biggest difference that I saw.
Like everything that we learned was seen from a
difference.
A different perspective.
Like you had the science,
you had biology,
biochemistry,
you know,
all of that.
But we also had herbal medicine and we had
Ayurveda.
So it was,
it was like teaching you how to see the world
from,
I mean,
the body from different perspectives so that you
would understand,
understand it better.
So it's like,
it doesn't,
it's like if you go to diet to like a normal
bachelor's degree,
they tell you that you have to follow,
these like guidelines that apply for everybody.
And it doesn't work like that.
It doesn't work like,
like that.
Everybody is like a whole universe.
So I think that something that is always more
individualized is the best.
And that's why I'm here.
Yeah.
I think the majority of the courses or the
curriculums that I've seen anyway,
from some of the bigger like universities where you
would think they would have,
you know,
the best programs,
but they're kind of following the guidelines that
the government gives people in regards to,
you know,
nutrition plans and dietary,
dietary requirements,
which we know are,
are not super accurate.
And I've said this many times on blogs and on
shows and different,
different talks that I've done that,
you know,
the most,
the most educated and qualified practitioners don't
go and work for the government.
You know,
so the people who are making these choices and
making me,
making these recommendations,
it's very difficult because they're trying to make
recommendations for a whole population.
It would probably be smarter to have different
recommendations for,
um,
you know,
spreading it out for people who might have a,
some sort of pathology,
age,
gender,
you know,
all these things come into,
come into play here.
But when you go to a,
you know,
a functional program or,
you know,
a holistic nutrition diploma program,
like the one at Pacific Rim College in Victoria,
it's,
it's so comprehensive.
And it's so,
as you say,
like we're using the word 'functional' there,
because you can,
everything that you're going to be learning can
easily be used in a,
in a practical setting.
Rather than just being taught,
okay,
like this is how much fat or protein or
carbohydrates everyone needs in a population.
And these are the best ways to get it like that.
So it's just quite pure reductionist science rather
than,
you know,
everybody's individual,
you're never going to have the same client twice,
never because all their circumstances are so wildly
different.
So being able to apply your like functional,
um,
practical training and your education to that,
that's,
that's,
that's,
that's,
that's,
that's,
that's,
that's,
that's,
that's,
your life.
So not just trying to become so subtle at the
same time,
it's just going to make such a,
such a,
such a,
such a much more impact on those individuals that
you're going to be supporting on a one-on-one
basis.
Dr.
Maria Marchand eighth on that quote,
Yeah,
absolutely.
Cause they,
they don't teach you to treat that problem.
They teach you to treat the body.
So if someone comes in tells you,
I have PCOS,
you don't read PCOS you treat Everything.
Insulin resistance,
You treated like the person,
the way to diet,
sleep,
and credit.
James Lehenbogen eighth on that quote.
Like everything that could develop from,
you know,
from imbalances,
and that,
I don't know,
create a condition like PCOS or hypothyroidism,
like you don't treat the thyroid,
you treat many things that will help you heal the
thyroid.
So I think that's more of like,
the focus of a functional medicine approach.
Yeah,
it's a bit like conventional medicine,
where,
you know,
you go in with a bunch of symptoms,
hopefully,
you can get a diagnosis.
And then there's like a protocol for everyone to
follow for that particular disease,
rather than,
you know,
taking the time to recognize that there are much
bigger things at play.
And you know,
every single system in our body is connected.
And we can't ignore one part,
while just focusing on one,
you know,
it doesn't really work like that.
That's like,
you know,
I've had so many clients who have gone to like
medical practitioners to talk to them about their
gut problems.
And they're never really given; they might be given
a sheet of paper with like a SIBO diet or
something,
or FODMAPs or something,
and it's just awful,
never works.
And unfortunately,
it's not the doctor's fault,
they're just not trained in it,
they should be,
they should be referring to a local qualified
nutritionist that can,
you know,
take the individual circumstance and give the give
that patient the time they need,
because you know,
you can't,
you can't give your whole health history of your,
of your issues in,
you know,
10 minutes to a doctor,
that's just impossible.
Yeah,
I think that those type of things,
especially when it comes to digestion,
those things should be referred out every time.
And it would actually create more time and space
for the doctors to be able to treat the more,
the things that they're actually trained,
trained in for a longer period of time.
So just like the dietary programs that we see kind
of all over the world,
that they're not taking the individual and the
real,
the real human person that you're going to be
speaking to,
all of their,
all of their stuff that they deal with on a daily
basis has to be taken into consideration when
you're going to recommend anything.
Yeah,
absolutely.
You have to,
like in my first consultation,
it's normally long,
because you have to ask the questions,
like everything,
you know,
how's,
how's your life?
How,
how are your relationships?
Like,
what are your stressors?
There are so many outside things influencing,
influencing our inside world that if you don't ask
those questions,
because you only have 10 minutes,
then it's very hard to understand the person and
what they're going through.
And that's why also like people are starting to go
more for like holistic nutritionists or naturopaths,
like something where they feel like they're listened
to,
or there are many more functional doctors.
So I always recommend my patients,
like if they can find a functional doctor,
like a functional gynecologist in their area,
go find a functional gynecologist.
And if they can find a functional gynecologist in
their area,
go find a functional gynecologist in their area,
go find a functional gynecologist in their area,
because their,
their thought process when they meet them is going
to be different.
And I think that people want to be listened to.
Yeah,
absolutely.
No,
you're spot on there.
And I think that comes in nicely to kind of what
I want to talk about here is kind of like
long-term stress.
And I think most people know that,
you know,
experiencing long-term stress is going to have
serious health problems.
So I wondered if you could tell us a little bit
more about kind of like how that works,
what that does to the hormones of your body
individually,
and what you kind of see in your practice when it
comes to like the highest stresses people have,
and how and what it does to their body.
Okay,
so stress is not necessarily bad.
The problem is when we have chronic stress,
our body as a response to stress starts producing
cortisol.
So cortisol is a stress hormone.
And cortisol is very necessary for our daily life,
like for many functions in our body,
like we need cortisol.
The problem is when we start having chronic
cortisol,
like high levels.
And that's when a lot of things,
like HBA,
start getting affected.
And it can also affect our periods,
you can start missing periods,
you can start having like,
like hair falling or lack of sleep,
like stress looks different from it for everybody.
So why you consider stress?
For example,
you have two kids,
and I'm single,
right?
So maybe your stressors are like,
'I'm a parent now.' And for me,
it's like,
'I don't know,
something different.' So our stressors are different,
but the body will respond to it.
So if someone comes and tells you,
'I'm stressed because of this,' maybe you wouldn't,
you won't understand that stress,
but you have to make sure that you because a lot
of doctors dismiss people because they're like,
'oh,
you're,
you know,
like,
you're fine.' Like,
'you can just deal with it.' And it's not like,
if someone's telling you they're stressed,
you have to listen to that.
There are many herbs and many supplements and many
therapies that we can do on a daily basis to get
our stress levels better to respond to stress
better.
But the thing is that we're always going to have
stress,
like stress is part of our life.
The moment you wake up,
you have your phone,
you have your computer,
you have a kid crying,
like there's stress the moment you wake up.
But the problem is when it becomes something that
you cannot handle.
So the problem is when it becomes something that
you cannot handle.
So the that's when you have to,
to,
to like,
take yourself out of your body and see like,
what can I do in my everyday life to change some
something.
So go to like,
for a walk in nature,
for example,
if you have 30 minutes every day to just
disconnect to it,
if you can have someone to help you with things
with,
I don't know,
in your house,
like ask for help,
if you have a very demanding job,
like make sure that once you finish your job,
you disconnect.
And you don't answer emails,
and you're not available.
Like,
you have to start putting yourself first,
because stress is just part of our lives.
And the problem that I see is that stress is
always behind most chronic diseases.
One that I see the most is hypothyroidism.
It's so common,
especially for women,
we're so sensitive to stress,
and our thyroid is very sensitive to stress.
So when you have a long period of stress,
normally,
you're not going to have a lot of stress.
So you're not going to have a lot of HIV,
and your thyroid is going to go like your TSH
will go high.
I see it so often,
for example,
these years,
only these years,
I probably have like 40 examples of that of,
like,
a chronic stress fear that developed made the
person develop hypothyroidism that happened to a
girl who was kidnapped with her husband,
and they were kidnapped; she was perfect before
that.
And she started feeling better.
Once everything just got figured out,
and they were rescued,
and she just felt bad,
and she went to the doctor,
and her thyroid wasn't like 11,
so I'm like,
that's a response to the stress she was leaving of
course.
Or um,
I see it a lot in people on like bad
relationships like that stresses you and that can
make you develop problems later on or just a lack
of sleep is a hormone balancing therapy; it's like
the most important thing that you can do if you
cannot even take care of your diet.
Like,
just make sure you have a good sleeping schedule
and with sleep comes circadian rhythm,
which is how your body just is in sync to me
with the sun kind of like that.
We can simplify it to be like that.
And so when you have good sleep,
like good quality sleep,
your body repairs a lot of things during that
sleep,
that's why a lot of people started also doing uh
intermittent fasting and they want just like this
rest but honestly if you just sleep well,
like if you have a good schedule where you go to
bed at the same time and wake up at the same
time,
that's super referring for your hormones,
for your cortisol,
for your weight like so many benefits come from
from sleeping.
And so,
the stress is just part of us; we just have to
know that there are many Therapies and many things
that we can use to to help you to go through
that stress,
yeah I mean,
you explain it perfectly in regards to everybody's
got stress,
it's an inevitability.
But you see those individuals who seemingly have
like they should have more stress because they've
got so much going on,
but they,
they aren't or they deal with in a different way,
but they,
you know,
they it's how we deal with it and how we support
ourselves,
how we prepare and you know are we actually giving
our body the nourishment it needs to deal with the
biochemical changes that come with dealing with
stress for the events and that comes down to you.
Know whether we're eating the right foods,
are we breaking down those foods,
are we assimilating them around our body,
are we actually able to create the chemicals inside
of our body to deal with these type of type of
changes?
And again you're recognizing the fact that suffering
long-term chronic stress is going to cause health
problems.
But like when is it that we actually become aware
that this thing is causing us stress,
it's making us internally feel discomfort,
pain,
whatever that might be.
It's that awareness which is really important as
you say,
like,
you know it's important to disconnect from our
phones but it's so important To like reconnect with
our body,
and we have to disconnect from all the crazy
things that happen around us,
all these this hyper novelty,
and all these stimulants that come from around us.
We have to be able to like reconnect inside and
actually have a chat with our body and check in
with different parts of our body and be able to
recognize,
okay there is an issue here,
and we're here what's causing it?
And it's a big step back,
and kind of looking at your own circumstances and
assessing them.
Sometimes it's really difficult to do with
everything that's going around you,
but when you're able to sit with someone like
yourself and Have those questions asked to you and
I know a lot about many of the clients that I've,
I've experienced in my nutrition practices because
we've got that 90-minute first session to have a
conversation.
They already know the answers; they know what their
problems are; they know what they need to do.
But like me,
they need someone to sit with them,
ask some questions,
hold them accountable for them,
and usually a lot of people come up with their
own answers but they need a coach,
they need someone on the sidelines to support them,
to let them know that they feel listened to,
to give them comfort when they need it.
But also,
you know,
give them A kick up the butt if they need that
as well,
that motivation to go forward.
Like it's so valuable to be able to have someone
to um,
go to for that type of that type of support.
Yeah,
I mean,
I think that everybody knows what's going on in
their life sometimes.
I,
I have a long intake form that I give people
before the first consultation and it's so funny how
many times I've heard like,
'I was like writing and I was like,
like seeing everything that I knew but like writing
it down like just made it so real.' And that's
why it's such a long intake form because I asked
so many things and it's like,
it's not for me,
it's for them.
It's for them to really
Know what's going on in their life,
and it's like it's like it's like it's like it's
like it's like what they want to work on and like
to see the patterns that they have because like I
ask things like how often do you eat X Y and Z
and they know like oh I I eat it every day,
you know or like I drink four cups of coffee
every day,
like that's probably not okay,
you know,
like these little things um that they know but
maybe they need someone to like make sure that
it's it's out there,
you know,
that you cannot keep lying to yourself um yeah,
but when you put when you put you're being
conscious and aware because you have to think about
what you're Writing and you have to think about
yourself,
and when you when you see that question,
you go inside and you create that story,
and you recall that's becoming aware.
But if we're just like continuously going through a
day stressed out and just like no subconsciously
going through our day,
we're not really bringing awareness to the fact
that yeah I do go and get four cups of coffee a
day,
and I wonder why I can't sleep and I don't digest
my food exactly.
Yeah,
that's that's really yeah it's really helpful being
able to go to a functional medicine practitioner
that's going to actually take that initial time to
help people um kind.
Of see where they need to support themselves and
where to kind of narrow their focus on,
because it can be it can be really overwhelming to
just like try and change everything,
but a bit working with somebody that can give you
like maybe three to four um recommendations at a
time that can be really really beneficial as well
to make sure that they're slowly introducing these
new habits to create kind of different outcomes um
and you know what sorry one more thing I do work
hand in hand with like gynecologists and
endocrinologists in Mexico,
like I think that it's not one thing or the
other,
like I love looking to them because It just gives
me a different approach because there are things
that I don't know,
and I need to refer them.
And I'm just gonna help you with your nutrition
and maybe supplementations and herbs,
but you gotta have like a good doctor next to you
who can like complement everything.
We're complementing each other basically.
You just like,
I would i will say like,
you need a trainer,
you know,
you need to go to the gym because I'm not gonna
teach you how to like go do workouts,
you need a trainer and you need a nutritionist,
you need your doctor,
like everyone has to play their area and um
support the person in their different areas.
i think that that's super important to for people
not to be like against one thing or the other i
think it just complements each other but you have
to find practitioners that resonate with you yeah
you've got to have a team around you for sure and
if you can get that functional practitioner you're
going to be able to get the you know the right
lab results and the right lab tests because there
are really you know you can you can go to a
conventional doctor and get one set of labs for
the same thing yeah for the you know for the same
thing with a with a functional practitioner you're
going to get the right set of labs to get the
kind
Of,
like,
right um,
right numbers that you're kind of like looking for
um,
so yeah,
I think that's a that's a good thing,
I think that's a good thing for to to look at
those things especially when you're dealing with
hormones right,
yeah.
I actually don't uh,
don't accept clients unless they can give me um
blood tests because how can I change your diet if
I don't know what you need so I remember in
school like they taught you taught us to read um
lab tests and it's so important to understand what
you're looking for and especially with all the
symptoms like you can if someone comes and she
tells you she's overweight and tired and has cold,
Hands and feet and hair falling all the time,
she's anxious and depressed.
Then you want to check the thyroid like it's so
obvious like there's something going on,
yeah.
So I think that definitely having blood tests is
always good for um,
for giving the proper treatment absolutely.
Um,
I want to talk about fertility because that
obviously that comes into hormones so much and I
believe that you,
you work with a lot of people when it comes to
fertility and you know more and more and more and
more and more and more and more and more and more
and more and more people are having fertility
issues on both sides of the fence,
men and women why Why is fertility so fragile,
and why is it such a common issue?
Because it's a common issue around the world,
so it's not just like one population is dealing
with it; it's a global problem.
I do think it's related to um hormone disruptors.
Unfortunately,
unfortunately we're living in a time where we're
exposed to chemicals from air,
water,
food,
beauty,
and cleaning products like it's just everywhere!
And these chemicals are called endocrine disruptors.
What they do is that they come into your endocrine
system,
especially the thyroid or your ovaries,
and they start acting like your hormones but in a
negative way.
So we have
Like,
for example,
estrogen receptors.
Right,
so the estrogen knows where to go in the receptor
and sticks to it and does its function.
But if you have xenoestrogens,
which is a type of hormone disruptor,
the xenoestrogen takes its place at the um...
of the estrogen receptor and starts doing all this
like bad estrogen things like that.
So we're exposed to a lot of chemicals right now,
so I think that's a huge factor; it's not the
only one because we also have stress,
we also have more refined diets; we don't have
schedules for meals,
you know...
um...
women are working.
same as men so the demand is just the same as a
guy who maybe like 50 years ago like women will
be at home so it's just like different like i
feel like the the women women's body is just on
their like high demand all the time and you also
have your liver processing all these chemicals all
the time you know or you have the other side of
like crazy diets and like you have you know and
value and vegan and this and and so you know it's
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okay.
So I was saying that you have like the two
spectrums now,
like very overweight women who probably have PCOS,
and you have um very thin women following like
straight crazy diets and having amenorrhea or
infertility,
like what you want is like Not to be here or not
to be here,
you want to be in the middle.
You want to be healthy and it doesn't mean that
you know you in a specific way.
I'm so against like saying 'telling someone how
much they have to wait'
because I think that it's just creating more
stress.
So you just need to teach them how to eat and
like promote healthy habits,
and your body will respond to that honestly.
And like fertility responds so well to um dietary
changes.
There are so many there's so much research that um
shows how diet influences fertility from your egg
quality um uh sperm quality to like so many
things.
And there are also certain nutrients that are
Very important for women who are looking to get
pregnant or during pregnancy or during lactation,
like there's so much you can do with nutrition for
fertility.
Amazing,
are there any like specific things that you can do
quite quickly to start improving it,
like any type of therapies or any like supplements
or herbal products that someone might introduce?
Okay,
so my favorite for PCOS is myoinositol with folic
acid - that's a combination that has been shown to
improve um regularity,
regularity of cycles,
uh the quality of eggs,
uh it helps to promote ovulation,
it improves sensibility to insulin,
like it has so many benefits.
so that that's a supplement that i would recommend
to everyone.
Would I recommend to someone who has PCOS?
If you have thyroid problems,
probably you could benefit from adaptogens depending
on what you need it's not like adaptogens are for
everybody,
but you can definitely have benefits from that.
People with Hashimoto's,
which can actually have higher rates of um,
miscarriage,
can benefit from myoinositol and selenium,
selenium for example,
um,
zinc is very good for for egg quality in general,
um,
we know that folic acid is very important in in
pregnancy so those are like little things that you
can take.
But honestly,
just starting on a fertility diet that's like the
base of anything that you're gonna do a fertility
diet will look different for each woman,
you know.
If you're on their weight,
you don't have the regular cycles,
you are full like a low-carb or low-fat diet,
I probably would get you into a high-carb and
high-fat diet but it's not like high-carb,
it's just like nourishing foods,
you know,
like maybe more sweet potatoes and quinoa,
and um,
just like even low-glycemic foods - it's just like
nourishing your body,
like good-quality meats,
um,
that are grass-fed eggs are great for fertility so
I would recommend definitely eating eggs,
and maybe if you're Someone who's overweight,
I will tell you to start um having like an
exercise routine that is not very high intensity
because that that also creates stress in the body,
but just like walking,
jogging,
biking,
going on hikes,
like just having more activity in your daily
routine,
like that's very good.
Um,
having a low glycemic diet that would be good,
like not necessarily super low carb,
but just moderate carbs.
We need carbs for fertility; like carbs and fats
are essential.
We just need the right amount for your body,
that's it.
So,
that's when you go with someone and they tell you
how much you need of everything,
but in general we just want To remove processed
foods,
um,
processed meats,
vegetables,
vegetable oils that are horrible,
um,
just yeah I would just focus on nourishing your
body and,
and they can also find good books on for example
Chinese medicine for fertility.
They,
I like Chinese medicine for fertility; they have
some good points,
amazing.
Are there are there like,
um,
within your practice are there like common stressors
that you see with,
with your clients because you work do you work
specifically with like PCOS and hormone issues so
do you see common stressors within the majority of
people that,
that you work with?
Well,
I work with all kind of hormonal imbalances like
endometriosis,
thyroid problems,
PCOS,
infertility,
um,
enorrhea,
like so many different things.
Um,
like I said,
for every woman,
like stress looks different.
But I think actually the stress of being sick is
like the biggest thing.
I think that from everything I've seen,
because you have work and relationships and maybe
monetary problems,
like all these little things.
But I think that the stress of not being healthy
and not feeling your best is a huge problem.
And I think that's what I'm trying to reason why
people come,
it's that stress of like I don't have my period
or I've been trying to get pregnant for a year.
and i can't or my hair is falling or i have acne
like all these things stress people you know it's
not feeling good so i i would say that that's
probably the biggest one yeah i think that
something when it comes when it's when it comes to
hormones and within within female health because
hormones within females is significantly more
complicated than with with guys i think that there
are so many different hormone disorders that can
kind of come from the same root problems so like
you're not sleeping enough having you know drinking
too much alcohol drinking too much coffee drinking
too many stimulants not exercising not
Eating nourishing foods and you're not having a
stress management tool,
all of these things could end up you know like a
thyroid issue for somebody or endometriosis or PCOS
like it's not that like it's not like one root
thing is causing that particular thing or that
particular thing or that particular thing no it's
never one thing it's always like little things that
when you add it up,
it's like for example your diet is influencing your
hormonal imbalance but maybe also your lack of
sleep or maybe that you're drinking too much coffee
and alcohol during the week or that you're eating
cake every day,
you know I'm not against Eating cake once a week,
but like probably every day is not the healthiest,
you know.
It's just like these little things,
like when you start like putting all the pieces
together,
it's like,
'Oh,
I see why you have this,' you know.
Or like normally,
things that are autoimmune,
like hashimoto's and endometriosis,
like it has a whole different root,
and it's very related to good health,
that's why the whole the diet and good health is
so important.
But also for example,
in endometriosis,
balancing estrogens is women who have endometriosis,
it's been found that um eliminating dairy and
limiting your uh meat consumption can help you.
much so for every person is going to be different
and you have to like ask those questions so that
you have the entire puzzle and you know and you
can see what's missing or what you can do and
also something to say that is very important is
that these protocols take time you don't take a
pill you know if you want a quick go and take a
pill but if you want to work from the roots you
have to like take like you know be patient and
just it's just a one day at a time thing to be
honest yeah i think that's a big problem in our
culture especially with the younger generations is
that we are so used to consuming a drug to deal
with deal with a problem
Or,
a symptom.
But it doesn't really work like that when it comes
to if you actually want to heal and cure
something,
and you know people might think,
oh,
it's dairy I'm consuming that's the problem,
so I'll just stop that then do everything else or
just stop gluten and then do everything else or
start exercising like crazy and not do anything
else but that's the that's the unfortunate like
reductionist single-minded process that we have
rather than taking a sit back and assessing all
the things that we're doing the things that are
coming in and things that are going out,
you know like I think it's difficult for a lot.
Of people to sit there and self-assess quite
brutally in regards to all of those aspects because
a lot of people like to have dinner at 10 p.m.
and then watch TV till one yeah,
and not think that that's an issue because they
sleep till like you know 9 or 10 a.m.,
and they get their eight hours but you know we
know that the hours before midnight are where the
majority of the healing is going to take place so
it's um it takes a lot of experience with your
own problems to recognize that there isn't going to
be like a one solution thing here,
it just doesn't work,
like,
and I've had so many clients that are in their
like 50s and 60s who have experienced The
conventional model for so long they've tried every
possible drug that they that they could they've
seen their doctor hundreds of times and they just
get to a place where things just aren't working,
and also they've got 10 minutes every time with
this session,
so they don't really feel listened to or connected
to; they might they feel kind of rushed through,
and then that leads them to go to like an
alternative complementary therapy like sitting down
with like a nutritionist who's going to take in so
many different things into consideration.
So definitely a big mindset switch that we need to
have is to think of ourselves
As a whole,
and everything contributes and is connected to
everything.
I think that's an important um mindset and approach
that us as practitioners that we can help
individuals kind of understand that that's a really
important approach to take if you actually want to
do some deep rooted healing absolutely.
And you know,
I always make sure that I also mention that you
know,
you can have the best diet and buy supplements and
work out but if you're mining your spirit,
I'm not okay,
none of that is gonna work like you have to think
of the whole you know,
like if you're not meditating or praying or
spending time with people you love.
Like,
what's the point of having like the perfect salad
and,
sure,
like it's it's just just as valuable for you to
take care of your spirit and your mind,
like I think it's just that,
that's why just thinking of like that reductionist
approach of like just taking dairy out and gluten
is going to heal my bones,
it's like no,
you need like so many things because we're complex
human beings,
like we have different needs,
like you need love,
you need care,
you need good food,
you need sunlight,
you need sleep,
you need fun,
like it's those little things that really make a
healthy person thrive,
yeah,
I find um like self-forgiveness is also like One
of the biggest key things that people need attempt
to get over,
you're not going to do that in Session one,
but like bringing it up as an idea - you know,
so many people have got such a connection to their
past and what that means to them.
And like,
there's a lot of like blame and a lot of um,
a lot of guilt that comes with a lot of these
things; a lot of just blaming yourself,
whereas you know we know that's that's just going
to stress you even further and that's going to
hold you down to a past habitual self that is not
going to create anything new into the future.
Um,
sorry - I remember you recommended this book from
Joe Dispenza - what was This book,
Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself,
yeah,
that one,
yeah,
I wrote it,
I,
yeah,
it was like four years ago,
that I read it,
um,
it's so good.
Can you he speaks just about that,
you know,
the patterns that we have and how to break free
from them,
basically,
yeah,
absolutely!
I think that habitual transformation is without
question the biggest part of,
you know,
somebody because they'll be picky,
they'll,
you know,
you'll see 100 people and not every single one of
them is going to really commit to their own
healing,
yet.
Yeah,
oh,
yeah,
yeah,
they're not going to be there,
but you know I've had a couple of just golden
clients that have actually Just helped them repent
so much,
you know,
and it's all well and good.
Premieres and stuff I love; just,
I do love them,
Ridley!
Got to such a bad place with their health where
they can't afford to not like follow the protocols
and be super committed,
and in a quite positive way.
Um,
but again,
yeah,
everyone's got their their own attachments to to
their past selves,
and change is very difficult for humans,
so I think that's an interesting part as well,
just to finish up.
You mentioned about like sleep; I'd love to get
some like some of your specific more like sleep
tips you touched on having like a routine and a
schedule,
you know,
like a bit or you know,
a bit having you know some consistency,
yeah,
what what other kind of sleep tips have you got
for us?
Well,
there's a whole thing called sleep hygiene,
and like you can actually find practitioners who
focus just on that,
but like if you just want some basics,
just having a sleep routine is key for your body
to just like kind of like de-stress and you know,
forget a bit about the day,
whether it was good or bad,
just like to start like getting into rest mode.
Um,
so I would recommend that people don't sleep after
11 p.m; that's like the latest you should be
sleeping ideally,
like between 9:30 and 10:30,
that's like perfect.
But no later than 11 um,
and waking up with the sun which is the circadian
rhythm will be six to eight a.m depending on your
sleeping um why you need you know you're sleeping
yeah um but there are many things that you can do
before trying to go to bed because some people
have insomnia and they cannot go to sleep so you
can read books I would recommend like not reading
or like using any uh computers phones tablets like
just forget technology like at least one hour
before trying to sleep um preferably like read
something or listen to a podcast or listen to a
meditation try to go on prayer or just meditate
like things that calm your nervous system because
if you had like a rough day and you're still like
processing everything in your mind like i should
have said that and i didn't and like you know
these things then you're you're not gonna sleep or
you're gonna fall asleep like having nightmares yeah
um so what you want is your brain to stop being
so active and um you can take a bath with like
salts or um you know many people use essential
oils too like there are these little things that
you can do to create a routine and for everybody
it's going to look different but if you find that
you have a uh a diffuser for essential oils and
you like to do that every night
Before bed,
and you like to take a bath or,
um,
you know it's just like a book that you want to
read,
like things like that.
And also,
I would recommend that you don't have heavy meals
before sleeping,
like if you go with a really uh,
heavy like stomach and intestines,
your sleep quality is not gonna be good,
and also you don't really digest food properly.
So maybe like eating like three hours before before
falling asleep,
that would be good,
and having like,
complex carbs is always good because it helps you
to like calm your nervous system with a healthy
fat and some protein,
like that's that's perfect,
great,
great tips yeah I always Want it always to blaze
my mind when most people's largest meal of the day
it is an hour before they go to bed,
and you know a plate of food is a plate of
energy,
like it's just the last time that last,
last,
last time of the day where you're going to need a
huge bunch of energy before you go to bed right?
And usually we overeat that meal because our
breakfast was minimal,
and our lunch was a desk exactly.
And then you the next day,
and you're full,
so you don't want to have breakfast,
and you have coffee,
and then you wait for lunch,
and then you again binge at night,
so it's kind of like changing that schedule again,
so there's your calorie rhythm.
It's also like when you're eating your largest
meal,
that should be like at lunchtime.
That's when you are going to really need that
energy,
and at night,
you can really have like a small plate; you don't
really need that much,
like you said it's energy.
Yeah,
I think that um having deliberate trends,
deliberate things you can do in a transitional
setting between ending your day and then going to
bed,
you know like we do kind of the same thing when
we wake up and we like have breakfast and coffee;
they're transitions to get into our day,
you know,
we're doing something to get you know to get ready
for the next part,
and then like coming home from Like,
work and then going into like,
relax mode; we should again like,
have some transitional stuff,
whether that's to change your clothes,
have a shower,
do some stretching,
whatever that might be,
or get into cooking; you know,
like that's a transitional process just like that
taking a bath,
listen to some music,
reading a book these are all things that are going
to help your mind and your body and your body and
your body and your body and your body connect to
the fact that okay,
we're going to be going from like fast beta brain
waves to like delta and theta to get ready to go
to sleep; I think that it's absolutely essential
when it comes to getting the best out of sleep
which is like one of the most important things
that we do as humans you know to to uh to start
healing and to um reprocess the day like it's such
an important thing absolutely and at night i think
it's when you can disconnect from the world and
spend time with like if you have family like spend
quality time with them or if you want to have a
chat with your with a family member that you
haven't spoke with like you know just things that
just make you feel like okay it's time to enjoy
life a little after a rough day or just like yeah
they're bringing that bringing that energy back to
you because all day
Every day,
we're just giving it out here,
giving it out there,
like just doing something,
even if it's for 10 minutes,
to bring it back; it's literally re-energizing and
you know,
focusing that energy back on yourself.
And how can people connect with you if they want
to work with an awesome hormone specialist?
Okay,
so you should spell it because I'm not gonna say
it; they're not gonna understand gastronomica.
It's my social media everywhere on Instagram,
YouTube,
um,
Facebook; um,
you can find me as gastronomica and um,
you can book consultations on my website which is
gastronomica.mx; um,
yeah,
and that's it!
Yeah,
I'll make sure.
Those links are available for people to check out,
don't worry about that.
Don't worry about the spelling,
it's all good,
yeah,
beautiful.
Well,
thank you so much for taking the time with me,
Priscilla,
I really appreciate it.
Thank you so much for inviting me; I'm so happy
we were able to do this.
Absolutely of course,
and as I say,
I'll make sure that all the show notes are
available for people so they can get connected with
you,
and I might put up that book as well,
that you spoke about,
'Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself',
because it is an incredible read that's applicable
to everybody.
So yeah,
thank you very much,
Priscilla,
thank You everybody for cheers.
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